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Men is incomplete without women. Bachelors should remember this.

God has created the men and the women different because they both fulfill each other. Bachelors may have been discourage from getting married because of many reasons. They have either been not able to get the right women they desire or may be they are afraid that they will lose their freedom.


In the first case you have to understand that no body is perfect in this world. If you are looking for the right girl or guy I just want to tell you that look at yourself first, you are not perfect, he is not perfect, nor she is. Therefore, we have to accept the fact that the human beings comes with faults.

Secondly, if you’re afraid that you will lose your privacy, freedom then you are very much wrong. After a certain age and time every human being needs to have sex for his well being. It is the absolute truth. And the legitimate way to get a regular dose of sex is the bond of marriage. When you lose your privacy to the one person then it is not lost but it only gets complete. And there is nothing like losing freedom. You will get support from your partner in every quest of your, the selfless support. You are not free when you are alone and taking no responsibility. The true meaning of freedom means taking responsibility. A responsible person only can feel himself as free.


As I am a man I can tell you from my experience that it is great to get married and to have kids. When I am in some doubt, can’t take decisions easily then she clarifies and helps me. Before marriage I was somewhat wild, without proper aim and objective in life. But now I have a clear cut goal and work every day towards it. And in the most of the cases the women makes us or teaches us discipline.

There are many other wonderful things that happens after getting married. First the women and later the children will make you fulfill your life. Believe me only after getting married you will be able to see some rare truths of life.

Why Kerala got flooded and more than 400 people died? I can see only one villain.

The southernmost state of India, Kerala is facing a most devastating flood of the lifetime. More than 400 people died because of it and the toll is counting. The main reason so many people died is that they were caught unprepared and didn’t know what to do. The Assam, for instance, is flooded more than once by the Brahmaputra and the Barak river annually. Therefore it is expected and people and Government prepare prior to the flood. So, not so many people die because of the flood as in Kerala.


And the main cause of this flood is global warming. Scientists have been reiterating that global warming is going towards the increase of 2° Celsius of the earth’s atmosphere. When it will reach that point then the whole of humanity wouldn’t be able to reverse it no matter what they do. There will be dominoes effect from that point and the Earth will continue to rise in temperature and become a hothouse. We are heading towards the 2° Celsius warmer earth just after one or two decades. The different natural calamities indicate it like the tsunami, flood, rise in ocean level, etc. We, earthlings, are not doing enough for our planet which is the only shelter for us the human beings. Some scientists argue that the GHG are so extreme that the 2° rise in the temperature is inevitable even if all the countries abide by the Paris convention.


It is a very serious threat to the whole existence of humanity. We have to take it as our Ernest duty to reduce the GHG emission to a sustainable level and then not let it increase so that the Earth can recycle its capabilities in a suitable way. The Government’s are not doing enough. It is a matter of the humanity so it is the need of the hour to think it of a global problem and resume talks and work by all the head of the countries of the world. We have to develop more scientific breakthroughs and collaborative implementation of it.


Another fact is that the people from high to low standard of living have to understand the fact about Global warming and try to use less fossil fuel energy as much as possible. The basics like switching off fans and lights when not in use, using public transport, not using A.C., not burning the plastics and totally banning it, etc. We have to understand that it is our duty as a human being to contribute for the well being of the Earth and humanity as a whole.

Slow your pace, you don’t have to hit hard all the time.

From some days I have been playing volleyball with our locality kids. I enjoy playing with these youngsters and it also keeps me fit. And it also eases my tensions which I have been feeling for some days as I am building my dream home. It is a pain in the ass to maintain everything from the accommodation of the construction workers to deal with the bank.


Yesterday in the volleyball field I was playing with fierce. I tried every ball to hit hard and to ramble it like a bomb. And guess what I missed most of it miserably and was very ashamed. Then a player from my team who is of the age of my son got the ball and placed it smoothly in a gap. And we got the point. Then he told me with a pleasant smile, “you don’t have to hit hard the ball every time”. His words clicked my mind and heart. How true this young fellow is! I tried to slow my pace and instead of hitting hard I was just focusing on the placement of the ball.


Life can be very hectic sometimes. It is designed in this crazy-paced world to be busy all the time. Just an earthquake hit in my area while I was writing and we everyone yelled ‘horrible’ or ‘hori bol’. I don’t know it is the tradition to tell those words when an earthquake comes. But the main thing is that a natural disaster can happen anytime, anywhere. We all are very much vulnerable to the forces of nature. Therefore, why shall we be in a hurry? Slow your pace friend. In Mahabharata, Lord Sri Krishna told his disciple cum friend Arjuna,

“Don’t worry and do your duty without any expectations. Because expectations create anxiety and stress. Rather remember that you will get the desired result sooner or later when you will do your duty with full mind and heart.”


It is a very effective cure for all the tensions, depression and frustration. You have to try your best to do every job and leave the rest to the Lord. He will divide whether you are ready to receive that or not. Remember that you will not get anything if you’re not ready.


Jesus Christ in the Bible says, “G ahead if you must with this foolish pace and when you are worn out I will offer my healing. But I can make your life so rich if you will slow down now and live and move and have your being in me. God moves imperturbably, slowly, and with perfect organization. The only wise rate at which to live is God’s rate. God gets things done and they are done right and he does them without hurry. He neither fumes nor frets. He is peaceful and therefore efficient. This same peace is offered to us– “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you…” (John xiv.27.)


Whenever I read the above message of Lord Jesus my mind immediately calms down and slow my pace. It instantly gives relief and brings contentment to my life. You should try it too. You will be surprised how peaceful you will be and living the life with the God’s rate.