Category: Thoughts

The housewife is the most wonderful women in the world: Look at the primitive cultures where the men go for hunting and the women look after the kids and other household activities.

Housewife is a word that is looked down as disgrace and insulting. Whenever I introduce my wife to my colleagues and friends then they only want to know what she does. Does she work outside the home in a government job? They don’t ask whether she is working or not. When they say that is she is working means that is she is working in a job or not. This is the most awkward situation I have been facing in my life. Because my wife is not a government job holder.

 

It embarrasses me when I see the mentality of the people.  It is not that she can’t get a job whether private or government. She has all the quality and essential qualification to get a job and she is also very much interested in the beauty industry. It is because we are planning to have a baby for which she has been staying home and I gave her freedom to choose her life and do whatever she likes.

 

One old relative asked me, what is your wife is doing now? Is she is into something? The question refers that does she has got a job.

I replied promptly, Yes, elder uncle she is looking after the house and household chores. She is doing fine and a very hard work. It means that we have to rely solely on my income but it is okay as we are very simple in living and making expenses. At this, he kept quiet and didn’t utter any word further.

 

In a marriage ceremony of a relative, both I and my wife were present. The atmosphere was electric, drums are rolling, people are dancing, reception is going on in full fledge. Everyone from the children to old is very happy and laughing in a good mood. Then the first question came from a friend of my better half. Do you have no children? We are planning to have one, my wife replied. She didn’t tell that our first child had died just after few days after born. It is still paining us tremendously like a wound. We are trying to revive ourself from pain when she again aimed another arrow.
Where are you working now? She asked.

I am a housewife. My wife replied.

Oh! It must be a very easy and relaxing life you’re living. I have a government job. And I don’t get any time for my family and the house. She said like as she is a multi-millionaire job holder.

That’s why I haven’t allowed my wife to work right now. Actually, it is her choice. It is not easy to be a housewife. A housewife has to look after the family, parents, and the household chores. It is very hard work from early morning to late at night. A service holder simply works from nine to five and then get time for herself or himself, but the housewife doesn’t. You get Saturday and Sunday off, she doesn’t. There is no leisure, no holiday for a housewife. If there will be no housewife then there will be no good house to live in.

 

How can you grow your children properly if they don’t get enough time from their parents? And read history and you will find that the men go hunting and women stays in the house and prepares the meals, feasts. Even in some regions and some parts, it is still prevalent.

I’m not against the working of women in any sort of job and work. But it should depend upon them and they should opt to look after the children as they are the natural rearer. Above all, as the men, it is our responsibility to earn enough to survive nicely without having to the women work.

Indian Society is in horrible state: No one is safe from human to animals! Why is this happening?

One pregnant goat is raped by 8 men brutally, mercilessly and she died next day! Where do we are living? In the stone age? Are we still barbarous cannibals who eat raw flesh? Otherwise, how can a gang of people rape and murder a pregnant animal? They are the perfect example of our rotten society. Forget about other crimes, the horrendous act of rapes are so widespread that they are no longer remain a sensational news and talked about. I hate to say that the people are getting used to the rapes!

 

The reasons for these rapes of the children to the oldest women are not very easy to compile. As there is no one reason and cause for it. But in my observance, the lack of moral education and the technological advancement is the main cause of this degradation in the society.

To enrich our child with moral education we have to start from the very beginning and the parents are the main element of it. Parents are the teachers, philosophers, and guide of the child. They become good,  bad, moral, immoral in their home. The parents have to take the responsibility to give the child moral education which will remain the whole life with him. To give moral lessons to the child the parents should bow the seed of faith in God. Let it rear and grow till it became an ocean of faith which will make remain him or her unshaken in any given situation. It is more important to provide moral education and faith in God than formal education. The formal education only helps the child to get a job, an establishment but the moral education and faith show the child the right path of the life, his purpose of existing in this world. What if the child is well established but become a rapist, murderer etc? His life will ruin in hell or jail.

 

The technological development is a boon and a ban at the same time. Take from the least dangerous things. The social media. The social media is a tool to get in touch with your friends, to get instant news and information. But at the same time, it promotes violence, hatred and mental sickness. The rumors in social media are so powerful that it has taken the life of many men and women in our country. Take the example of the computer I have been writing on by typing without a pen and paper. But I can also see pornography on the internet very easily with a click of a button or two. And not only the computer, the mobile devices are so available and powerful that even a 10 years child can access it and watch the unnatural, bizarre pornography. Think about a few seconds that how a little child reacts to that immoral acknowledgement of the so-called love. At age 10 or 11 or so a child is not enough to ripen to understand the shameless acts. And they are not young enough to not recognize anything. Think about the dilemma, the tragedy which the child will face. They will have to carry the immoral caricature in their skulls all the time. It is not easy to understand that the mind of the child is devastated from the very beginning of their life.

God is everywhere: but why can’t we see him?

It is the question we ask from our childhood, it is the question which comes to the mind of every individual from the child to the old. The question is this. If God exists then where is he? Why we can’t see him? Why he has not distributed everything equally and made a perfect harmony in his creation?

According to the Hindu philosophy, the soul doesn’t die, the body does. So, the soul reincarnates in a new body through birth. Therefore, the soul is immortal. And there are places like heaven and hell. We have to pay the price of our good and bad deeds in heaven or hell. And it is believed that God is everywhere with every one of us. Then why he doesn’t help us in our need? Because God has created us by giving everything within us. We can get the required energy, intellect from within us.

If it is true that God is everywhere then why can’t we see him? Why is he hiding from us? This is because he simply wants to play ‘hide and seek’ with us. And when by doing a great amount of prayer and devotion towards him he will be visible to us and give us whatever we want. I was just joking! We pray, believe in God and do our duty. Lord  Krishna in Mahabharata, the Kurukshetra war told Arjuna that the human has to do their work and leave everything in the hand of God. That means no worry, the worry is left to God.  We see the Sun and afraid its fury i.e. heat and energy. We no longer pray it because we have seen it and its fury. Likewise, if we see God in his original state then we will be shocked, afraid and terrified by his power, vigor and vivid nature. We will be so afraid that we will forget to love and pray to him.

 

God has given the humans the power to love. The word love itself is everything in describing this world and God. God wants to love him, his creation and each other. Because the hatred and anger destroy everything in this world. Therefore, if we can see God then we will forget to love him and pray with love. But we will start to worship out of afraid.

 

And God has provided us the path of love. The love for God, his creations, and the fellow human beings. Therefore, we can feel God like the air, the heat and the cold.