Author: Hemendra

To the Indian parents: Listen to the heart of your child and give them proper sex education.

Indian parents are the most typical parents in the world. They think whatever they do is for the betterment of the child. In one sense they are not wrong at all. They think their children will be better off with the path they choose for them. They want to give the child education, career which is conventional and they think is fit for the child. But in this process, they ignore the desire of the child. For that purpose, the child has to choose a path in which they do not desire in their life. Therefore, the conflicts arise in the life of the child and they become the prey of lack of self-confident and depression. The child wanted to become a writer, a singer or an artist but the parents wanted the child to become a doctor or an engineer. Because they think that in the profession like doctor and engineer there are enough opportunities for earning income. They are not aware that in this age of the internet anyone can earn a handsome amount of money. The only hindrance in the path of an individual is learning and doing.

 

Listen, dear Indian stereotypical parents carefully. The world is changing and so the opportunities. Anyone can be successful in any field they want. Let your child listen to their hearts about what they want to become in their life. They should be given full opportunity to choose their own path and the parents have the responsibility to realize the true interest, the dream of their child.  Because it is only when a person realizes his or her interest, passion in a thing then only they could be able to give their hundred percent in that thing. Nothing will be able to stop them in the path of the success. And overall they will be happy in their heart because of listening to their heart.

 

It is the responsibility of the parents to provide sex education in their homes to their children. The girl child is more vulnerable than the boy because of the lack of sexual education. Our government has not been able to bring a proper sexual education in the school and colleges. Therefore, the children learn about sex from their over matured peers, internet, and books which most of the time distract the child from the proper education and provide wrong information. Therefore, in the mind of the young child, a wrong answer to the question of sex is presented and they can’t understand about the normal sex. So, they contain a misconception about it and keep path in a wrong direction. The girl child can face more dangerous situations like rape, drugs addiction etc. The taboo about sex in the mind of the parents is yet to disappear from our society.

 

The parents don’t want to talk to the child about sex. When the family is watching television then if any unwanted scene appears then either the set is switched off or the channel is changed. What message does it give to the child? That sex is a bad thing, it is harmful and a thing of shame. Then the child will be more curious to know about it and therefore they become the prey of the evil. We can imagine this by the number of rapes happening in this country every day. This is a grave situation and very sorry state for the country. Therefore, it is the responsibility of every parent to do their parts and provide proper sex education to their children.

Men is incomplete without women. Bachelors should remember this.

God has created the men and the women different because they both fulfill each other. Bachelors may have been discourage from getting married because of many reasons. They have either been not able to get the right women they desire or may be they are afraid that they will lose their freedom.

 

In the first case you have to understand that no body is perfect in this world. If you are looking for the right girl or guy I just want to tell you that look at yourself first, you are not perfect, he is not perfect, nor she is. Therefore, we have to accept the fact that the human beings comes with faults.

Secondly, if you’re afraid that you will lose your privacy, freedom then you are very much wrong. After a certain age and time every human being needs to have sex for his well being. It is the absolute truth. And the legitimate way to get a regular dose of sex is the bond of marriage. When you lose your privacy to the one person then it is not lost but it only gets complete. And there is nothing like losing freedom. You will get support from your partner in every quest of your, the selfless support. You are not free when you are alone and taking no responsibility. The true meaning of freedom means taking responsibility. A responsible person only can feel himself as free.

 

As I am a man I can tell you from my experience that it is great to get married and to have kids. When I am in some doubt, can’t take decisions easily then she clarifies and helps me. Before marriage I was somewhat wild, without proper aim and objective in life. But now I have a clear cut goal and work every day towards it. And in the most of the cases the women makes us or teaches us discipline.

There are many other wonderful things that happens after getting married. First the women and later the children will make you fulfill your life. Believe me only after getting married you will be able to see some rare truths of life.

Why Kerala got flooded and more than 400 people died? I can see only one villain.

The southernmost state of India, Kerala is facing a most devastating flood of the lifetime. More than 400 people died because of it and the toll is counting. The main reason so many people died is that they were caught unprepared and didn’t know what to do. The Assam, for instance, is flooded more than once by the Brahmaputra and the Barak river annually. Therefore it is expected and people and Government prepare prior to the flood. So, not so many people die because of the flood as in Kerala.

 

And the main cause of this flood is global warming. Scientists have been reiterating that global warming is going towards the increase of 2° Celsius of the earth’s atmosphere. When it will reach that point then the whole of humanity wouldn’t be able to reverse it no matter what they do. There will be dominoes effect from that point and the Earth will continue to rise in temperature and become a hothouse. We are heading towards the 2° Celsius warmer earth just after one or two decades. The different natural calamities indicate it like the tsunami, flood, rise in ocean level, etc. We, earthlings, are not doing enough for our planet which is the only shelter for us the human beings. Some scientists argue that the GHG are so extreme that the 2° rise in the temperature is inevitable even if all the countries abide by the Paris convention.

 

It is a very serious threat to the whole existence of humanity. We have to take it as our Ernest duty to reduce the GHG emission to a sustainable level and then not let it increase so that the Earth can recycle its capabilities in a suitable way. The Government’s are not doing enough. It is a matter of the humanity so it is the need of the hour to think it of a global problem and resume talks and work by all the head of the countries of the world. We have to develop more scientific breakthroughs and collaborative implementation of it.

 

Another fact is that the people from high to low standard of living have to understand the fact about Global warming and try to use less fossil fuel energy as much as possible. The basics like switching off fans and lights when not in use, using public transport, not using A.C., not burning the plastics and totally banning it, etc. We have to understand that it is our duty as a human being to contribute for the well being of the Earth and humanity as a whole.